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Chine début de la Foire du livre de Nanjing 2018

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  Chine début de la Foire du livre de Nanjing 2018

  Sea,byDaiZe(PhotoprovidedtoChinaDaily)Sinceitsestablishmentin1918,theCentralAcademyofFineArts(formallycalledBeipingSchoolofArts)hasassembledacollectionofmorethan18,000worksofart,,tomarkitscentenary,CAFAreleasedanalbumcomprising10volumesandfeaturing2,,modernChineseworksacrossseveralmedia,Chinesefolkart,suchasNewYearpaintingsandpicturebooks,,byMaChangli(PhotoprovidedtoChinaDaily)Stilllife,byChangShuhong(PhotoprovidedtoChinaDaily)Iliteracyelimination,byWangYidong(PhotoprovidedtoChinaDaily)Beauty,byanonymousartist(PhotoprovidedtoChinaDaily)AcopyofPaulCezannesBridge,byLiuXiaodong(PhotoprovidedtoChinaDaily)Twojournalistslookatthescreenshowingthedamagedworldfamouspaintingofthe16thcenturyRussianTsar,titledIvantheTerribleandhisSonIvanonNovember16,1581.byIlyaRepinduringapressconferenceattheRussianStateTretyakovGalleryinMoscowonMay28,hebestknownworksof19thcenturypainterIlyaRepin,depictingIvantheTerriblekillinghisson,atagalleryinMoscow.(Photo/Agencies)RussianStateTretyakovGalleryofficialsattendapressconferenceafterIlyaRepinsworldfamouspaintingofthe16thcenturyRussianTsar,titledIvantheTerribleandhisSonIvanonNovember16,1581.wasdamagedinMoscowonMay28,2018.-RussianpoliceonSaturdaysaidtheyarrestedamanforvandalisingoneofthebestknownworksof19thcenturypainterIlyaRepin,depictingIvantheTerriblekillinghisson,atagalleryinMoscow.(Photo/Agencies)ARussianStateTretyakovGalleryemployeestandsneartheblankspacewhereIlyaRepinsworldfamouspaintingofthe16thcenturyRussianTsar,titledIvantheTerribleandhisSonIvanonNovember16,1581.wasexhibitedinMoscowonMay28,2018.-RussianpoliceonSaturdaysaidtheyarrestedamanforvandalisingoneofthebestknownworksof19thcenturypainterIlyaRepin,depictingIvantheTerriblekillinghisson,atagalleryinMoscow.(Photo/Agencies)

ResidentsaffectedbyanearthquakestayinatemporaryshelterinSongyuanCity,NortheastChina’sJilinProvince,May28,,SongyuanCityonMondaymorning,damagingthehousesofmorethan1,thequake.(Photo:ChinaNewsService/ZhangYao)ResidentsaffectedbyanearthquakemovetheirbelongingsinSongyuanCity,NortheastChina’sJilinProvince,May28,,SongyuanCityonMondaymorning,damagingthehousesofmorethan1,thequake.(Photo:ChinaNewsService/ZhangYao)StaffmembersattheInsectMuseumofWestChinafoundafive-hornedrhinocerosbeetlewithfourlargehornsonitsprothoraxandoneextra-longcephalichornonQingchengMountaininChengduCity,osbeetlefoundintheprovince.(Photo:ChinaNewsService/ZhaoLi)StaffmembersattheInsectMuseumofWestChinafoundafive-hornedrhinocerosbeetlewithfourlargehornsonitsprothoraxandoneextra-longcephalichornonQingchengMountaininChengduCity,osbeetlefoundintheprovince.(Photo:ChinaNewsService/ZhaoLi)StaffmembersattheInsectMuseumofWestChinafoundafive-hornedrhinocerosbeetlewithfourlargehornsonitsprothoraxandoneextra-longcephalichornonQingchengMountaininChengduCity,osbeetlefoundintheprovince.(Photo:ChinaNewsService/ZhaoLi)StaffmembersattheInsectMuseumofWestChinafoundafive-hornedrhinocerosbeetlewithfourlargehornsonitsprothoraxandoneextra-longcephalichornonQingchengMountaininChengduCity,osbeetlefoundintheprovince.(Photo:ChinaNewsService/ZhaoLi)StaffmembersattheInsectMuseumofWestChinafoundafive-hornedrhinocerosbeetlewithfourlargehornsonitsprothoraxandoneextra-longcephalichornonQingchengMountaininChengduCity,osbeetlefoundintheprovince.(Photo:ChinaNewsService/ZhaoLi)StaffmembersattheInsectMuseumofWestChinafoundafive-hornedrhinocerosbeetlewithfourlargehornsonitsprothoraxandoneextra-longcephalichornonQingchengMountaininChengduCity,osbeetlefoundintheprovince.(Photo:ChinaNewsService/ZhaoLi)StaffmembersattheInsectMuseumofWestChinafoundafive-hornedrhinocerosbeetlewithfourlargehornsonitsprothoraxandoneextra-longcephalichornonQingchengMountaininChengduCity,osbeetlefoundintheprovince.(Photo:ChinaNewsService/ZhaoLi)

  CorgidogsraceduringtheSoCal"CorgiNationals"championshipattheSantaAnitaHorseRacetrackinArcadia,California,May27,17raceevent.(Photo/Agencies)CorgidogsraceduringtheSoCal"CorgiNationals"championshipattheSantaAnitaHorseRacetrackinArcadia,California,May27,17raceevent.(Photo/Agencies)CorgidogsraceduringtheSoCal"CorgiNationals"championshipattheSantaAnitaHorseRacetrackinArcadia,California,May27,17raceevent.(Photo/Agencies)CorgidogsraceduringtheSoCal"CorgiNationals"championshipattheSantaAnitaHorseRacetrackinArcadia,California,May27,17raceevent.(Photo/Agencies)CorgidogsraceduringtheSoCal"CorgiNationals"championshipattheSantaAnitaHorseRacetrackinArcadia,California,May27,17raceevent.(Photo/Agencies)CorgidogsraceduringtheSoCal"CorgiNationals"championshipattheSantaAnitaHorseRacetrackinArcadia,California,May27,17raceevent.(Photo/Agencies)CorgidogsraceduringtheSoCal"CorgiNationals"championshipattheSantaAnitaHorseRacetrackinArcadia,California,May27,17raceevent.(Photo/Agencies)CorgidogsraceduringtheSoCal"CorgiNationals"championshipattheSantaAnitaHorseRacetrackinArcadia,California,May27,17raceevent.(Photo/Agencies)

  Twojournalistslookatthescreenshowingthedamagedworldfamouspaintingofthe16thcenturyRussianTsar,titledIvantheTerribleandhisSonIvanonNovember16,1581.byIlyaRepinduringapressconferenceattheRussianStateTretyakovGalleryinMoscowonMay28,hebestknownworksof19thcenturypainterIlyaRepin,depictingIvantheTerriblekillinghisson,atagalleryinMoscow.(Photo/Agencies)RussianStateTretyakovGalleryofficialsattendapressconferenceafterIlyaRepinsworldfamouspaintingofthe16thcenturyRussianTsar,titledIvantheTerribleandhisSonIvanonNovember16,1581.wasdamagedinMoscowonMay28,2018.-RussianpoliceonSaturdaysaidtheyarrestedamanforvandalisingoneofthebestknownworksof19thcenturypainterIlyaRepin,depictingIvantheTerriblekillinghisson,atagalleryinMoscow.(Photo/Agencies)ARussianStateTretyakovGalleryemployeestandsneartheblankspacewhereIlyaRepinsworldfamouspaintingofthe16thcenturyRussianTsar,titledIvantheTerribleandhisSonIvanonNovember16,1581.wasexhibitedinMoscowonMay28,2018.-RussianpoliceonSaturdaysaidtheyarrestedamanforvandalisingoneofthebestknownworksof19thcenturypainterIlyaRepin,depictingIvantheTerriblekillinghisson,atagalleryinMoscow.(Photo/Agencies),NortheastChina’sJilinProvince,May28,2018.(Photo:ChinaNewsService/LyuShengnan),NortheastChina’sJilinProvince,May28,2018.(Photo:ChinaNewsService/LyuShengnan),SongyuanCityofNortheastChinasJilinProvinceat1:,accordingtotheChinaEarthquakeNetworksCenter(CENC).(Photo:ChinaNewsService/LyuShengnan),JilinProvince,May28,2018.(Photo/VCG),JilinProvince,May28,2018.(Photo/VCG),SongyuanCityofNortheastChinasJilinProvinceat1:,accordingtotheChinaEarthquakeNetworksCenter(CENC).(Photo:ChinaNewsService/ZhangYao),SongyuanCityofNortheastChinasJilinProvinceat1:,accordingtotheChinaEarthquakeNetworksCenter(CENC).(Photo:ChinaNewsService/ZhangYao),SongyuanCityofNortheastChinasJilinProvinceat1:,accordingtotheChinaEarthquakeNetworksCenter(CENC).(Photo:ChinaNewsService/ZhangYao),SongyuanCityofNortheastChinasJilinProvinceat1:,accordingtotheChinaEarthquakeNetworksCenter(CENC).(Photo:ChinaNewsService/ZhangYao)

  Chinese-madesmartphone"Mi3"enteredtheMalaysianmarketandstartedsellingTuesday,saidBeijingXiaomiTechnologyCo.,LtdpresidentLinBininKualaLumpur。

  AbirdrestsonthestemofalotusflowerintheHuangshanscenicareainAnhuiprovinceonJune10,,astemperaturescontinuetorise.(Photo/Asianewsphoto)AbirdrestsonthestemofalotusflowerintheHuangshanscenicareainAnhuiprovinceonJune10,,astemperaturescontinuetorise.(Photo/Asianewsphoto)AbirdrestsonthestemofalotusflowerintheHuangshanscenicareainAnhuiprovinceonJune10,,astemperaturescontinuetorise.(Photo/Asianewsphoto)AbirdrestsonthestemofalotusflowerintheHuangshanscenicareainAnhuiprovinceonJune10,,astemperaturescontinuetorise.(Photo/Asianewsphoto)TwobirdsrestonthestemofalotusflowerintheHuangshanscenicareainAnhuiprovinceonJune10,,astemperaturescontinuetorise.(Photo/Asianewsphoto)

  Theteam,ledbyDrJasonRentfrow,atFitzwilliamCollege,Cambridgefoundtwomaintrends.剑桥大学菲茨威廉学院的杰森·伦特弗洛博士带领的研究团队发现了两个主要趋势。,ChinesewascategorizedalongwithArabic,SwahiliandIcelandicasaLessCommonlyTaughtLanguage",theworldsoldestwrittenlanguageisthesecondmostcommonlyspokennon-Englishlanguage,onlyafterSpanish,intheUnitedStates,,accordingtoalatestsurveyby24/7WallStr.,"ThemostsignificantnewaspectofthisChineseFever,wasthatitwentdowntothelevelofprimaryandsecondaryeducation,"saidLaughlin,EastAsianStudiesandDepartmentChair,UniversityofVirginia,inarecentinterviewviaphonewithXinhua."Forthefirsttimeacrossthenation,yousawChineseinstructioninelementaryschools,middleschoolsandhighschools...Ithink,itcontinuestogrow,"saidLaughlin,slatestChinesearticle,titled"Jazz,educationandAmericanCulture"andunderhisChinesename,LuoFulin,iscarriedbythe4theditionof2017HuaCheng,orFlowerCity,,,-,,butithaspulledbackinthepastfourorfiveyears."(Itis)notbecauseofachangeofattitude,butIthinkmaybebecausesomeofthestudentswereinitiallyinterestedintakingChinese...theymighthaveoverestimatedtheirabilitiestolearnChinese,"hesaid."Itisimportanttoremembertheincreaseattheuniversitylevelisstillmuchhigherthanitwas20yearsago,inanotherwords,nowChinese,atmostuniversities,,,afterSpanishandFrench,"Laughlinsaid."Thishasneverhappenedbefore,itwasnotthecasewhenIwasinthecollege."However,ineseinAmericanuniversitiessincethelate19thcentury,enChinastarteditsreformandopening-uppolicyinlate1970s."Aroundtheendof20thcentury,Chinasachievementsaresoincredible,anditsglobalinfluencedevelopedveryfast...(these)raisedtheprofileofChineselanguageveryhigh,"ffman,ateacherfromBrooklyn,NewYorkCity,oncefeltlearningChinesewassohardbecauseshedidnothavenativespeakerstopractisethetonelanguage."IstudiedSpanishbecauseIusedtoworkinaSpanishneighborhood,andIcarryonabasicconversationwiththeparentsnowabouttheirjob,andImsureitsgonnatakelongerinChinese,justbecauseofthetones...SothatsthechallengeforAmericans,"HoffmantoldXinhuarecentlyattheendofherfirstChineseclassattheChinaInstituteinLowerManhattan,NewYorkCity."(Itwasevenharder)ifyoudidnthavetheabilitytohearitmanymanymanytimeswhenyouwenthome,itsnotlikeyoucanstudyitfromabookinthesamewaythatyoucouldwithSpanish,whichismorephonetic,oranyotherlanguage,"shesaid."(Now)withtheassistanceofcomputeritwouldbeabiteasier,""Chineselearningapp"yieldsover31,700,000results."SmartphonesappshavebeenareallyhelpfultoolbecausetheyallowmetostudyChinesewhileImonthesubwayorinacoffeeshop,"wroteSbortoZhou,aneditorwhohasstudiedChineseforoverfiveyears,inhisarticle"The12bestappstolearnChineseonyoursmartphoneortablet."Inhisopinion,thebestappsforlearningChineseareSkritter(LearnhowtowriteChinesecharacters),FluentU(improveyourlanguagelevelthroughimmersioninthelanguage)andTheChairmansBao(anonlinenewspaperthathasbeensimplifiedforpeoplelearningMandarin),,asortofWhatsappthatisextremelypopularinChina,isalsoconsideredoneofthebestplatformsforChineselearnerstointeractwithnativeChinesespeakersasitallowsonetomeetnewpeople."AllthesesimpleandaccessibleresourceshaverevolutionizedtraditionalChineseteaching,"saidChenJinguo,aninstructorwhohasbeenteachingattheChinaInstituteformorethan20years."Byembeddingthemwithincurricula,myclassesaremoreinteresting,interactiveandengagingwithlocalstudents."  

  Twojournalistslookatthescreenshowingthedamagedworldfamouspaintingofthe16thcenturyRussianTsar,titledIvantheTerribleandhisSonIvanonNovember16,1581.byIlyaRepinduringapressconferenceattheRussianStateTretyakovGalleryinMoscowonMay28,hebestknownworksof19thcenturypainterIlyaRepin,depictingIvantheTerriblekillinghisson,atagalleryinMoscow.(Photo/Agencies)RussianStateTretyakovGalleryofficialsattendapressconferenceafterIlyaRepinsworldfamouspaintingofthe16thcenturyRussianTsar,titledIvantheTerribleandhisSonIvanonNovember16,1581.wasdamagedinMoscowonMay28,2018.-RussianpoliceonSaturdaysaidtheyarrestedamanforvandalisingoneofthebestknownworksof19thcenturypainterIlyaRepin,depictingIvantheTerriblekillinghisson,atagalleryinMoscow.(Photo/Agencies)ARussianStateTretyakovGalleryemployeestandsneartheblankspacewhereIlyaRepinsworldfamouspaintingofthe16thcenturyRussianTsar,titledIvantheTerribleandhisSonIvanonNovember16,1581.wasexhibitedinMoscowonMay28,2018.-RussianpoliceonSaturdaysaidtheyarrestedamanforvandalisingoneofthebestknownworksof19thcenturypainterIlyaRepin,depictingIvantheTerriblekillinghisson,atagalleryinMoscow.(Photo/Agencies)

  AbirdrestsonthestemofalotusflowerintheHuangshanscenicareainAnhuiprovinceonJune10,,astemperaturescontinuetorise.(Photo/Asianewsphoto)AbirdrestsonthestemofalotusflowerintheHuangshanscenicareainAnhuiprovinceonJune10,,astemperaturescontinuetorise.(Photo/Asianewsphoto)AbirdrestsonthestemofalotusflowerintheHuangshanscenicareainAnhuiprovinceonJune10,,astemperaturescontinuetorise.(Photo/Asianewsphoto)AbirdrestsonthestemofalotusflowerintheHuangshanscenicareainAnhuiprovinceonJune10,,astemperaturescontinuetorise.(Photo/Asianewsphoto)TwobirdsrestonthestemofalotusflowerintheHuangshanscenicareainAnhuiprovinceonJune10,,astemperaturescontinuetorise.(Photo/Asianewsphoto)AnenthusiastgoesbungeejumpingfromZhangjiajieGrandCanyonsglass-bottombridge,duringachallengeinZhangjiajiescenicspot,centralChinasHunanProvince,May26,,Australia,BritainandothercountriesandregionsparticipatedinthechallengeonSaturday.(Xinhua/YanYuan)AnenthusiastgoesbungeejumpingfromZhangjiajieGrandCanyonsglass-bottombridge,duringachallengeinZhangjiajiescenicspot,centralChinasHunanProvince,May26,,Australia,BritainandothercountriesandregionsparticipatedinthechallengeonSaturday.(Xinhua/YanYuan)AnenthusiastgoesbungeejumpingfromZhangjiajieGrandCanyonsglass-bottombridge,duringachallengeinZhangjiajiescenicspot,centralChinasHunanProvince,May26,,Australia,BritainandothercountriesandregionsparticipatedinthechallengeonSaturday.(Xinhua/ZhouGuoqiang)AnenthusiastgoesbungeejumpingfromZhangjiajieGrandCanyonsglass-bottombridge,duringachallengeinZhangjiajiescenicspot,centralChinasHunanProvince,May26,,Australia,BritainandothercountriesandregionsparticipatedinthechallengeonSaturday.(Xinhua/ZhouGuoqiang)AnenthusiastgoesbungeejumpingfromZhangjiajieGrandCanyonsglass-bottombridge,duringachallengeinZhangjiajiescenicspot,centralChinasHunanProvince,May26,,Australia,BritainandothercountriesandregionsparticipatedinthechallengeonSaturday.(Xinhua/YanYuan)

  StaffmembersattheInsectMuseumofWestChinafoundafive-hornedrhinocerosbeetlewithfourlargehornsonitsprothoraxandoneextra-longcephalichornonQingchengMountaininChengduCity,osbeetlefoundintheprovince.(Photo:ChinaNewsService/ZhaoLi)StaffmembersattheInsectMuseumofWestChinafoundafive-hornedrhinocerosbeetlewithfourlargehornsonitsprothoraxandoneextra-longcephalichornonQingchengMountaininChengduCity,osbeetlefoundintheprovince.(Photo:ChinaNewsService/ZhaoLi)StaffmembersattheInsectMuseumofWestChinafoundafive-hornedrhinocerosbeetlewithfourlargehornsonitsprothoraxandoneextra-longcephalichornonQingchengMountaininChengduCity,osbeetlefoundintheprovince.(Photo:ChinaNewsService/ZhaoLi)StaffmembersattheInsectMuseumofWestChinafoundafive-hornedrhinocerosbeetlewithfourlargehornsonitsprothoraxandoneextra-longcephalichornonQingchengMountaininChengduCity,osbeetlefoundintheprovince.(Photo:ChinaNewsService/ZhaoLi)StaffmembersattheInsectMuseumofWestChinafoundafive-hornedrhinocerosbeetlewithfourlargehornsonitsprothoraxandoneextra-longcephalichornonQingchengMountaininChengduCity,osbeetlefoundintheprovince.(Photo:ChinaNewsService/ZhaoLi)StaffmembersattheInsectMuseumofWestChinafoundafive-hornedrhinocerosbeetlewithfourlargehornsonitsprothoraxandoneextra-longcephalichornonQingchengMountaininChengduCity,osbeetlefoundintheprovince.(Photo:ChinaNewsService/ZhaoLi)StaffmembersattheInsectMuseumofWestChinafoundafive-hornedrhinocerosbeetlewithfourlargehornsonitsprothoraxandoneextra-longcephalichornonQingchengMountaininChengduCity,osbeetlefoundintheprovince.(Photo:ChinaNewsService/ZhaoLi)

  AgiantpandaenjoysicedfruitatChimelongSafariParkinGuangzhouCity,SouthChina’sGuangdongProvince,May28,,keepersintheparkstartedprovidingfrozenfoodtothepandas.(Photo:ChinaNewsService/ChenJimin)GiantpandasenjoyicedfruitatChimelongSafariParkinGuangzhouCity,SouthChina’sGuangdongProvince,May28,,keepersintheparkstartedprovidingfrozenfoodtothepandas.(Photo:ChinaNewsService/ChenJimin)AgiantpandaenjoysicedfruitatChimelongSafariParkinGuangzhouCity,SouthChina’sGuangdongProvince,May28,,keepersintheparkstartedprovidingfrozenfoodtothepandas.(Photo:ChinaNewsService/ChenJimin)AgiantpandaenjoysicedfruitatChimelongSafariParkinGuangzhouCity,SouthChina’sGuangdongProvince,May28,,keepersintheparkstartedprovidingfrozenfoodtothepandas.(Photo:ChinaNewsService/ChenJimin)AgiantpandaenjoysicedfruitatChimelongSafariParkinGuangzhouCity,SouthChina’sGuangdongProvince,May28,,keepersintheparkstartedprovidingfrozenfoodtothepandas.(Photo:ChinaNewsService/ChenJimin)

  研究:选择性记忆代表智商更高偶尔健忘有益健康Study:Beingforgetfulmightactuallymeanyou—infact,selectivememorycanevenbeasignofstrongerintelligence.如果事事牢记不是你的强项,你可以放心了。The2018MCMLondonComicConisheldinLondonfromMay25toMay27,attractinglotsofcomicfanswithfantasticfashion.(Photo/Agencies)The2018MCMLondonComicConisheldinLondonfromMay25toMay27,attractinglotsofcomicfanswithfantasticfashion.(Photo/Agencies)The2018MCMLondonComicConisheldinLondonfromMay25toMay27,attractinglotsofcomicfanswithfantasticfashion.(Photo/Agencies)The2018MCMLondonComicConisheldinLondonfromMay25toMay27,attractinglotsofcomicfanswithfantasticfashion.(Photo/Agencies)The2018MCMLondonComicConisheldinLondonfromMay25toMay27,attractinglotsofcomicfanswithfantasticfashion.(Photo/Agencies)The2018MCMLondonComicConisheldinLondonfromMay25toMay27,attractinglotsofcomicfanswithfantasticfashion.(Photo/Agencies)

  

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  这是温言的自媒体平台分享的第173篇原创文章。温言,毕业于北京大学、伦敦政治商学院(LSE),著有《第2份工作》《你只是还未全力以赴》《世上没有怀才不遇这件事》。

  本文作者:孙晴悦,央视驻外记者,曾浪迹于拉丁美洲,现暂居美国。微信号:大大的世界和小小的人儿 | dearqingyue,本文欢迎向晴悦本人授权转载。

女生女生

  温言的朋友圈  

  本期分享者:孙晴悦

  有一个师妹在纽约生活了很多年。

  她在纽约读了金融硕士,很顺利地毕业后找到了华尔街的工作。优渥的薪水,高品质的生活,工作了两年后,她却说,可是华尔街终究是一条很窄的街。

  “是你们把它想的太宽了。”

  我记得很多年前去纽约旅行的时候,作为游客,当然是要去朝圣一下著名的华尔街。我记得当走到窄窄的街口,看到路牌写着Wall Street的时候,还真是有一点激动。原来这就是电视里经常看到的华尔街。

  也是不可免俗地在那头大金牛前留下一张照片。我不炒股,也不盼什么牛市,但是,就是一定会想要和大金牛一起拍一张照片。

  所以,当师妹说,华尔街终究是一条很窄的街,我并不能同意。

  虽然,现实中,确实是一条窄窄的,仅宽11米的街,但是它是世界经济的中心,直到如今,地位依旧举足轻重。

  我对她说,“你在华尔街工作,和世界的中心离得是那样近。”

  师妹在华尔街做了两年金融老本行后,赚了一些钱,然后在众人的目瞪口呆中,一掷千金,重回学校。

  嗯,大家不过认为,需要一掷千金的学校不过是去读商学院。虽说,有点贵,却也是中规中矩的精英路线。

  但师妹的千金掷到了纽约电影学院。

  周围所有人都说,你是做金融的,和创意毫无关系,甚至不客气点讲,你压根儿就没有电影人的脑回路。你和数字打交道,而在二十几岁的尾巴,你说你要转行做电影。

  且不说,你放弃金融,放弃华尔街的工作是否值得,就没好好想想,做电影,你行么。

  师妹不闻不问,办好了离职手续,租了布鲁克林更便宜的公寓,铁了心和过去时不时在曼哈顿的酒吧里小酌一杯的生活告别。

  后来,我们看到她朋友圈里分享着一部又一部的冷门电影,看着她和满脸大胡子的中东导演合影,把她衬得越发娇小,看着她变成了一个又一个冷门博物馆的常客。

  她常常在我们的群里兴致勃勃地说着如今的生活,好像华尔街上班永远只穿黑白灰的她,突然在一瞬间里被抹上了色彩。

  过了很久,我才小心翼翼地问她,为什么当初没有和任何人商量,一意孤行,就直截了当地选择了这条路呢。

  师妹却问了我这样一个问题。

  “过了25岁,你有没有发现,所谓重要的选择,所谓人生大事越来越多,而我们可以与之商量的人,却越来越少。

  有时候,甚至就是没有人可以商量。”

  是啊。

  我们以前小学毕业上什么初中,中考上什么高中,高考填志愿选哪座城市,哪所大学,也有分歧,但有一个普遍认为好的大方向在。

  那个时候,我们习惯于找人商量,我们和父母商量,哪个城市对未来发展更好,就去哪里上大学,我们师哥师姐商量,哪个单位招实习生,哪个企业待遇平台更好,我们就去哪里投简历。

  因为,在25岁之前,好与不好,几乎都有个明确标准。而我们则是一张白纸,自我意识还没有完全形成。

  但是,25岁以后。

  “你看哪个优秀的女生,成天婆婆妈妈,和祥林嫂一样,到处去问别人意见,和别人商量,到底自己该去哪个行业,到底自己该嫁给一个什么样的人。”

  师妹说,这么多年,她最喜欢纽约的一点,就是这里有很多很酷的人。

  纽约和所有大城市一样,人与人之间保持着适当,甚至冷漠的距离。毕竟纽约客不介意你到底是在研究外星人,还是想要拍一个耶路撒冷最偏僻村庄的纪录片。

  大家步履匆匆,各自有各自的生活,互相不打扰,不靠近,但你身在其中,会发现,这里看似冷漠的每一个姑娘,其实都迷人极了。

  “曾经在一个open office的日本女生,普林斯顿毕业,就是突然有一天对大家说,她要辞职了,farewell party上喝得微醺,告诉大家自己要去东南亚,去偏僻的乡村,做一个口述历史的研究。”

  “我永远记得,那个日本女生突然告诉我们这个消息的样子,她是我们同一级分析师里最聪明,情商最高的一个,所有人都很看好她,然而,她就是这样突然潇洒地和我们告别了。”

  没有婆婆妈妈担忧以后怎么样,没有找任何人商量这个决定是否有风险,没有来絮絮叨叨和我们说未来要做的项目是多么有前景,或者她多么热爱。就是一句farewell,摆摆手,后会有期了。

  这样的女生,活得太高级了。

  女生有很大的性别劣势,我们天生就会婆婆妈妈,瞻前顾后,其实我们自己心里都明白,过了25岁,自己想要走一条什么样的路,和他人已经毫无关系了。

  父母们也很难给出类似应该上哪个高中,这种绝对正确的建议了。

  因为时代的大环境在变,我们内心真正渴望的东西在燃烧,而这一切父母,并不能感同身受。

  那么我们身边的朋友们呢。

  其实,我们换哪个工作,究竟要嫁给谁,有哪一项是真正听从了朋友的建议。

  说到底,朋友闺蜜,也不是你,她们也许和你成长背景相似,经历相似,但是终究要去往哪里,大家目标并未一致。

  你永远也无法让你喜欢岁月静好的闺蜜,大力支持你去漂泊天涯,也无法说服一个做生意的闺蜜,让她真心赞同朝九晚五拿死工资就叫做稳定。

  问来问去,成倍增加了自己的焦虑,而且吃相很难看。

  因为,讲真,我没有见过任何一个不停地在问周围人要不要辞职,或者到处和别人抱怨自己的工作的人,最终真的做出改变。

  她们就是日复一日地传递着负能量,犹犹豫豫,瞻前顾后,要不要换工作,要不要结婚,要不要生二胎,说来说去就是这些问题,而这么多年,哪一项也没见搞得有多好,还连累了身边亲友当垃圾桶。

  这样的女生,注定无法活得很高级。

  25岁以后,我们要做的决定越来越多,也一个比一个重要。

  可以给你出主意的人,却真的越来越少。

  因为世事好坏已经没有同一个标准,大家各自的成长背景,境遇,经历,眼界也是如此不同。

  要不要向前一步,要不要冒更大的风险,没有人可以给你一个完全准确的答案。

  靠近又疏离,这是成年人的友谊,很长时间之前我已经不再给闺蜜出主意了,因为很多事情无法言说,无法评论,一说就错,你又不是她,如何知道她怎么样才能真正安乐自在。

  越长大,就会发现,没有绝对的正确了,也没有确保无虞的康庄大道了,每种生活,都有代价。

  可以给我们出主意的人越少,我们自己就越要有担当。

  愿你能做个潇洒的人,不婆妈,不碎嘴,然后我们一起不顾一切地闯荡。

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